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Meet the Guru: Desi Antari, Events Executive at Alila Ubud

In Beach Weddings, Destination Wedding Planners, Planning, Planning & Tips by Ande Tongco

Tucked into the forest above the Ayung River gorge, Alila Ubud offers a wedding setting shaped entirely by the landscape around it. The ceremony space centres on a stone altar framed by lush gardens and uninterrupted valley views; the jungle provides the atmosphere that no styling budget could replicate. Events Executive Desi Antari has spent years helping couples bring their vision to life here. We asked her what makes it special.

Venue Snapshot

Venue: Alila Ubud
Location: Ubud, Bali, Indonesia
Website: http://www.alilaubud.com/
In five words: Serene. Intimate. Lush. Authentic. Unforgettable.

The Venue

The ceremony setting at Alila Ubud is outdoors and entirely nature-led. A stone altar sits at the heart of the space, framed by the resort’s lush gardens and the Ayung Valley stretching away beyond – the sounds of the jungle providing the kind of atmosphere that no sound system could manufacture. It’s an intimate venue; and that intimacy is precisely the point.

For the wedding night, the Forest Edge Villa on the sunrise side of the resort offers a level of seclusion that is rare even by Bali’s standards – a private retreat set into the hillside, designed for couples who want to disappear from the world for a day or two. Guests can be accommodated in rooms overlooking the valley, each offering views of the lush tropical vegetation that defines the surrounding landscape.

What are the main reasons couples choose Alila Ubud for their destination wedding?

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The setting draws couples in – a breathtaking jungle landscape paired with an intimate atmosphere and deeply personalised service. Nestled in a peaceful valley, the resort offers a blend of nature, privacy and authentic Balinese charm that creates a wedding experience both meaningful and memorable.

Where’s your favourite spot at the resort for a stunning wedding photo?

The infinity pool overlooking the lush valley. The panoramic jungle views combined with soft natural light create a backdrop that feels both timeless and quietly dramatic.

What’s the most Instagrammable spot at the resort?

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The same pool, from the same angle. The dramatic drop into the valley and the serene jungle surroundings make every image feel effortlessly striking.

What’s the best room for the wedding night and why?

The Forest Edge Villa on the sunrise side of the resort – private, set into the hillside, with a balcony that opens onto uninterrupted greenery. It’s a space designed as a tranquil sanctuary for couples to unwind and take in the moment.

What’s the one thing couples get at Alila Ubud that they won’t find anywhere else?

A sense of place that feels both intimate and unexpectedly distinctive. Alila – meaning “surprise” in Sanskrit – reflects the experience itself: a tranquil hillside retreat set high above the Ayung River valley, where contemporary design meets traditional Balinese architecture. Secluded courtyards, spacious terraces and private gardens create a feeling that is entirely its own, with every room opening out to the surrounding jungle. Even the resort’s pool, recognised among the most beautiful in the world, speaks to that rare combination of design and landscape.

What are some of the chef’s specialities for a wedding menu?

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Refined Indonesian flavours paired with contemporary international cuisine. Signature menus often include locally inspired tasting experiences, fresh seafood and carefully curated canapés – all crafted with seasonal ingredients and presented with a modern, considered touch.

What’s the most glamorous experience a couple can enjoy at the resort?

A private candlelit dinner overlooking the valley. With personalised service and a bespoke menu, it becomes an experience that feels both intimate and quietly luxurious.

The Planner’s Insights

What’s the biggest misconception couples have about planning a destination wedding in Bali?

That it will be complicated and stressful. With the right team on the ground, the process can be seamless – allowing couples to focus on the experience itself rather than the logistics.

What’s the strangest wedding request you’ve ever had – and did you deliver?

A surprise entrance that blended traditional elements with a deeply personal twist. It required careful coordination, but it was delivered seamlessly – and became one of the most memorable moments of the celebration.

What do wedding couples almost always forget?

To pause. The day moves quickly, and carving out a few quiet moments together to take it all in is something couples often overlook.

What’s your best piece of advice for couples planning their destination wedding?

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Trust your team and embrace the destination. When you allow both your story and the local culture to shape the experience, the result becomes something far more meaningful than a single day.

What’s the most memorable thing a couple has ever said to you after their wedding day?

“The day felt effortless, and we were able to truly enjoy every moment.”

About Desi

Desi came to weddings and events through a passion for hospitality and creating experiences that feel genuinely meaningful. Being part of such an important milestone – and helping turn each couple’s vision into something memorable – remains at the centre of how she works today.

If your best friend called you tomorrow and said she was thinking about a destination wedding, what’s the one piece of advice you’d give her that she won’t find on any website?

Choose a place that feels right for you, not just one that looks beautiful in photos. When there’s a genuine connection to the destination, the entire experience becomes more meaningful – and that feeling lasts long after the wedding day.

Desi’s Insider Tip for Ubud

Wake up early at least once. Whether it’s a quiet walk through the rice fields, a moment by the river, or a simple local breakfast, it’s in those calm, unhurried hours that you begin to understand the true rhythm of Ubud.

For wedding enquiries at Alila Ubud, contact the events team at desi.antari@alilahotels.com